Unity Candles
29 May 2008
If you are planning a wedding and plan to have a unity candle as part of the ceremony, you might want to think outside the box.
Traditionally, the unity candle involves three candles. The bride has one, the groom the other, and their two lighted candles light the third candle. This is done to represent the coming together of the two people to make one unit. In some alternate methods, family members are invited to participate in the unity candle lighting, often the mothers of the bride and groom, or other close members of the family. Each family then lights a candle, and together they light the unity candle to symbolize of the coming together of the families.
Now, there are a few twists you can add to this fairly conventional aspect of a wedding ceremony. You can provide each guest with an unlit candle when they arrive at the ceremony. After the couple lights the unity candle, they can ask the guests to move to the front of the church (or wherever the ceremony is being held) and light their candles with the lighted unity candle. This can take a bit of time and might be best with a smaller guest list. But it is a meaningful way to not only get your guests involved in the ceremony itself, but also symbolize the union of family and friends with the marriage.
If there is a large guest list and it would be a prohibitive waste of time to do a candle lighting involving everyone at the ceremony, some brides and grooms like to bring the unity candle to the reception. Light the candle again and provide each guest with a small votive candle (the candle holder will be on the tables at individual table settings). As guests come into the reception area or hall, they can light their votive and take it to their table to place into the votive holder. This small votive candle can double as a wedding favor, particularly if you decorate or enhance a plain votive candleholder in some way to coordinate with your wedding.
Of course, you can forget having a unity candle at the ceremony altogether. Many brides these days are trying to reduce the length of the ceremony and spend more time planning the reception. In that light, some choose to do away with a unity candle altogether. You can certainly do this, or you can cut it out of the ceremony and make it part of the reception.
To do this, you can use the votive candle option suggested above, or you can simply incorporate the unity candle lighting into the reception activities themselves. For example, you might choose a quiet moment in the reception to have a lighting of the unity candle. It might be during a short prayer prior to the serving of the meal, or right before the cake is cut. In this case, the unity candle can then be used as decoration on the cake table. As the bride and groom cut the cake and pieces are served to guests, the candle can also serve as a reminder of the couple's new bond and that the bond is shared with all the guests as well.
Although having a unity candle at the wedding or reception isn't necessary, it is certainly an option that many brides and grooms opt to include. But it's important to remember that as with so much surrounding wedding planning there are ways to make it unique and interesting and special to the couple getting married.
Event Creation
28 May 2008
How To Create Events That People Talk About?
When you are trying to create a great event that people will remember, you will want to put a lot of hard work into it. You have to be willing to use your creative side to make this something that will keep people talking for a long time to come. There are so many different things that you can do in order to make an event special. All you have to do is make sure that you are able to get the supplies and the help that it takes to make your event great. With these things, you can really turn some heads.
There are so many things that you will have to do for a special event. The first thing that you need to do is set a date. Once you have the date in place, you will then have to find the perfect place to hold the event. You will want something that will hold the expected amount of people that will be there as well as be comfortable and appealing to the eyes as well. You will want to shop around until you find the perfect place that will work for you and your needs.
After you have the date and the place, you will then want to stick to your budget. You will want to think about the amount of money that you can spend and then go from there. You want to allow yourself enough for your budget so that you can get everything needed on your list. This will be the best way to start the planning process.
You will then want to advertise your event. You need to make sure that everyone that is being invited gets an invitation early. You want them to make sure they have enough time to rvsp to the special party. This will also allow you extra time to get ready for the number of people that are defiantly coming to the event. You can also advertise the party with the newspaper, emails, and even flyers. These are all very good ways to get your event advertised at a great bargain.
The entertainment is very important to an event as well. You want to have something for everyone. You will defiantly want to have a great beginning and end to your party. This will keep the guests talking about the time they had for a long time to come. You will also want to make sure that the entertainment is appropriate to the guests that are there. It is important to keep them interested while they are supporting your event and with the right entertainment, you will have great response.
Use a time line to keep thing rolling at the event. You want to have everything in place and a special time allotted for them. You need to keep the night jam packed full of fun. You do not want the party to get dull or boring at anytime. This will only make your guests restless and wandering what is going to happen next. You should think of ways to keep the night on a great pace and to make sure the guests are satisfied with all the entertainment that you have offered.
Keep organized. You need to make sure that you have everything under control. You need to make sure that you have taken care of all the things that have to be done so that nothing is missing. You will also want to be sure that you have personally made sure that all the details are taken care of so that nothing is missed. When you do find that you may have forgotten something, you should make the necessary arrangements to fix the problem and get it under control.
With the right people running the event, you should have no problems at all. You may want to make sure of this by hiring an event planner. You will need to make room in your budget and if you do not have the budget for it, you may want to find someone to help you along the way. This can be anyone that you trust that will make sure all the details are taken care of and to take a little bit of the stress off of you. You will certainly appreciate the help and everything will be perfect for your event.
Milestone Birthdays
27 May 2008
While birthdays in themselves are a very special event, there are times in a person's life when we can't ignore the
milestones they have reached.These birthday parties are usually a little more special and the gifts given tent to be extra special as well. Most
of these birthdays are a sort of coming-of-age along with increased privileges and responsibilities.It starts from the beginning. The 1st birthday is typically where it begins. Normally during a child's first birthday
it is more about the family and friends of the parents as opposed to a party for the child's friends.Most children on their first birthday are given either their own small cake or their own piece to eat however they
like. This is usually messy because they go at it with hands and mouths.The next most important milestone birthday is usually the 13th birthday. This is when a child officially becomes a
teenager.In some religions this is the year that a child becomes an adult and begins to take on adult responsibilities. After
13 is the one most teens look forward to.The 16th birthday is the year that most US states allow a teen to legally drive without their parents present.
When a teenager celebrates their 18th birthday, they are able to legally vote, join the military and are now
considered an adult.The next milestone Birthday is the all-important 21st birthday. This is the legal drinking age in the US.
The next milestone comes at 35. This is when in most countries, someone can run for the highest political office
such as President of the United States.After that, 40 is considered the over the hill birthday and then typically every ten years is another milestone.
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